I did it, you did it, and your friend who passed this through WhatsApp, because just reading the headline came to your head, she did it.
But first the first thing: do you follow me on Twitter or Facebook? Okay, now we can move on.
GTRES
The "I have a boyfriend" is the equivalent of Casa Tarradellas pizza when you Don't feel like cooking: easy and fast. As soon as you use it, you've got results. With how little we like to deal with the insistents, the weird thing would be not to resort to the phrase.
But by using the "I have a boyfriend" you Don't do anyone a favor. You may win to be left alone for a moment, but you Don't solve the problem.
The first reason why I Don't use the "I have a boyfriend" is because it's usually a cheap excuse that actually means "I Don't care about you but I Don't want you to keep giving me conversation / insisting / wasting time explaining why I Don't want anything with you, so with this I get you off my back more quickly." Be honest. If you Don't like it, say it.
Because saying "I have a boyfriend" can lead me to think that, if you didn't, I'D have a chance with you. And, let's be honest, it's not the engagement for your partner that keeps you from running in the arms of anyone else (if you do).
That is why the second reason not to use the formula is that there are those who have illusions and may think that, even if they have been invited to sit on the bench, they may be required on the playing field on condition that the holder disappears.
Can we use this platform to recall teachers how to be professional and follow their etiquette as a teacher # FEUHSDoBetter
— Patrick Santos Mon Apr 19 09:55:45 +0000 2021
Third, because men are not ceramic. They're not gonna break. If you Don't like someone, choose sincerity and make things clear: "I'm sorry but I'm not interested." There you go. Everyone can't like you, and I Don't know anyone who's ever received pumpkins in his life.
Your boyfriend, if you have him, he's not a human shield. It's not an excuse. Use it as a justification let us see that perhaps you would be with that other person if it were not because you are immersed in a previous relationship (which is the same in the minority of cases is so).
You Don't say "I'm in love" or "my heart belongs to someone else." You say "I have a boyfriend" like when you used to say "I have pee" in class to go for a walk down the school hall to clear you for a while or waste time from chemistry lesson.
Finally, let us teach and understand that expressing our lack of interest is a sufficient reason for us to be left alone and not just frightened of "the prey" because it has already been "hunted" by the "alpha male". We're not in the jungle.
So from now on, stop making cheap excuses (however quick and effective they have been so far) and simply give your reasons, because they are totally respectable.
Duchess Doslabes.
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